It’s never too late to develop good writing habits
Teaching writing can be intimidating, especially if you don’t feel like you are a good writer. Here are some tips you can use to encourage your kids to write. Grade school, high school—age doesn’t matter. A 70-year-young gentleman I know took some writing courses and got published. You’re never too old to learn!
Read to your kids.
Make family reading time a priority, if only once a week. It’s a great way to share quality time together and provides opportunities for discussion. The benefits of exposure to literature are endless. It broadens perspectives and lends to a sense of adventure. We read the Little House on the Prairie series, biographies, carefully chosen classics, and more. I looked for books that were interesting and had relevance to my kids’ lives and studies.
I’ve observed kids for years and can usually tell which ones have been read to and/or are readers. Among other things, they often have more vivid imaginations. They have a good sense of what sounds right when writing, because they have been exposed to literature. Reading, and being read to, opens up a world for kids that they might not otherwise experience.
Set a good example; let your kids see you writing.
Even if the only things you write are letters, lesson plans and grocery lists, you are still writing! It’s important to remember that no matter what we do in life, it is necessary to write and communicate. The better we write, the better we will communicate.
Keep writing!
The more you do it, the more you improve. My husband is a prime example (and a good sport). When we started in business 20-some years ago, writing a business letter was not his thing. With practice and a little advice, he now writes a professional letter with very little assistance from the editing department (me!).
Find writing projects to do together.
Classroom-assigned writing activities are great, but sometimes they don’t spark a student’s creativity. How many of us plodded through the required “What I did on my summer vacation”? A group project can be more fun. When it comes to writing, especially for reluctant writers, fun is key. Engage kids by finding short, interesting group activities. Projects can be expanded as their skills develop. Try writing a continuing story, silly poetry, or a family newspaper together. For ideas, I recommend If You’re Trying to Teach Kids to Write, You’ve Gotta Have This Book! by Marjorie Frank.
Illustrate it!
Sometimes kids like to draw but don’t like to write. Jumpstart their imaginations by combining the two. Write a story together, if only a short paragraph, and then let them illustrate it. Find a funny picture, or remove captions from cartoons and have the kids write about it.
Just let them write.
Let the grammar go while they get their ideas on paper. It’s hard, I know! But it’s important to let them be creative and realize that they can write. Don’t hover over them pointing out errors. Concentrate on the good things they’ve done first, and then address issues that need work down the road. A gentle and balanced approach will reap big results.
We used to choose a few things that my kids had written to revise and polish. That way, they didn’t feel like they had to produce a perfectly penned product every time. My middle son kept notebooks full of stories. Most of them were composed of one long run-on sentence. Punctuation was non-existent; the spelling was terrible. The stories were good, but I cringed when I read them. However, if I had corrected everything, he would not have written at all. So I let him have his writing space, and we worked on things over time. The approach worked; he’s an adult now who writes and communicates very well.
Writing is a necessary skill for life. Your kids may not become famous novelists, and that’s okay. Be patient, they are works in progress! Help them stretch their writing skills; you’ll give them an edge for their future.
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Karen Lange homeschooled her three children through grades K-12. She is a freelance writer and homeschool consultant. Her booklet, The Only Homeschool Booklet You Need to Start Your Very Own Best Co-op Ever! is available at www.theoldschoolhousestore.com. Karen is the creator of the Homeschool Online Creative Writing Co-op for teens. Visit the co-op website at www.hswritingcoop.bravehost.com.
